Monday, October 21, 2019

Drew mail 10-21-2019: "It's gonna take work"

Hola all! Cómo están? I hope you are all doing well and had a great week! I am so thankful for the things I have been able to experience and learn this week! I've had some great moments but also there have also been some really difficult times. I want to share a little bit of what I have learned about the Lord´s work and how all we experience can be for our good!
So first of all to start out with the "good" that I have been able to see this week:
As always I have been able to see tender mercies each day and I am so thankful for them. The little things, the answers to prayers and testimonies are what keep me going! So we have been working with a man named German who is living with his pareja (girlfriend) Ana, and is a less-active member of the church. They are really amazing and are just so loving and wanting to learn and progress. At first when Elder Letelier and I met them we were not sure of how to approach the topic of marriage with them, but this week we met with them a few times. On Tuesday we were able to talk with them about temples and a little bit about eternal families which was really amazing.  We left feeling good. Then on Thursday, they we were talking and the subject changed to what they are wanting to do with life and all of the sudden Ana said "our goal is to be sealed in the temple." At first Elder Letelier and I were like -  what! That is amazing!! So then we were able to talk with them about what they need to do to get there,  We invited them to pray together to be able to know if they ought to begin the process of getting married, which here in Uruguay takes three months. It was an amazing thing to be able to see that this lesson was directed by God and to see the joy and hope in their faces as we talked about what it means for them to be together forever. Throughout the rest of the week we were able to find a few new people as well and begin teaching them which was another amazing thing! We had lots of great opportunities to talk with the people here who are wanting to learn which has been an amazing blessing this week.
On the other hand, we had a rough time on Saturday. We had planned to have three lessons in the Church building with Julia, Esperanza and Luisa, and Sharon, and everything seemed to be working together towards it, but in the end not one of the lessons worked out. We were super excited to have these lessons and help these people.  I  honestly was really devastated when we weren't able to have them come. We went to look first for Sharon, and she didn't answer the door. We had called and talked to Julia the day before and she told us she was going to come to church, that she had been praying, so we waited for a bit for her and then it was clear she wasn't coming. I was just crushed. Elder Letelier and I were able to pray together and sit for just a moment, as we did the peace and calm that I felt was remarkable. He told me that we had done everything we could do, and that we needed to be happy with our efforts and I felt better. We decided to go look for Luisa and Esperanza, and she was out cutting the lawn and said she couldn't come but scheduled a time for Sunday to come back. We then decided to go and find Julia at her house. She answered and we were able to talk with her about repentance and the atonement. She is struggling with being able to let go of her sadness and pain of losing her son a few months ago, but isn't wanting to act so she isn't able to receive healing. It has been really difficult to be able to feel such great desires and hope to have these people come to the church, but then feel such great sadness when they don´t. 
The thing I have learned though this experience is that this is the work of God. We have to be able to struggle and experience hardship to be able to be perfected and learn and improve. Without sadness there can´t be joy, and the truth is it´s gonna take work to be able to receive this fullness of joy. I testify that Heavenly Father has a plan for us and that even in the hard times we can hold to the tender mercies and see the good. He wants us to progress and improve. He wants us to become like Him, and we can if we just keep working. I promise that every effort you give to draw closer to Heavenly Father will be worth it.  You will see the great blessings that come from your faith and time and tears and striving. I love you all and hope you will find strength to continue in the work of the Lord.  We need each other to do it!  This is a joyous work, and we will find success, fulfillment, and love if we continue. Yo lesprometo esto en el nombre de Jesucristo amén.  (I promise you this en the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.)

Scripture of the week: 1 Nephi 3:7

Quote of the week: El sólo desearlo no lo hará realidad.  El Señor espera nuestro razonamiento; nuestra acción; nuestro trabajo; nuestros testimonios; nuestra devoción. -President Monson  (Only desiring it, doesn't make it real.  The Lord expects our reasoning, our action, our work, our testimonies, our devotion.) 


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